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EGO: That Human Feeling

Well, it's only a three letter word but it surely can change more than a million things. It's something one cannot live with or without, one has to be egoistic and at the same time non-egoistic in life. But don't know why, sometimes this feeling called 'ego' swallows up a person so much that everything said and done against his will, is like committing a sin.
Yes, even I am egoistic, but not to the level I've seen in a lot of people. Sometimes one can be so egoistic that he doesn't want to listen or believe anything anyone wants to say to him, an egoistic person will always want to prove to the world that he is always right, and the others are totally wrong. They are also very selfish or self-centered; they only look what is better for them and care a damn for anyone else.
I write this today because I really think that this human feeling can really destroy lives, it's even worse than 'hate'. But one thing is really very true, too much ego is not good but too little is also not good, today one has to be 'self-centered' in a way, has to take care of himself. And certainly not go on and boost about self, how well off or whatever he is.
At the end I'd just like to say that, we all need to be egoistic, but in a gentle way, not by hurting the feelings of others around, just live life to the fullest and also do look back (be humble) at times.

House Being Torn Down But It's Wimbledon All The Way

"Murray beaten by master Federer" read the headline on the Wimbledon website, and it was quiet a fight but Murray did not meet the excellence that Federer put before him. Federer now has his 16th grand slam title and fourth at Melbourne Park (The Australian Open), surely proves the dominance of this pure genius at play.
And at the other end of the World, here in India at my home... well our house is getting torn down to make way for a brand new one. Our 46 year old Mansion (House) has lived long to tell it's own tale...well if it could...
Now we are only waiting for it all to come down, get cleared and a new house to come in it's place. There are endless memories inside the head about the house, watching it at the state it was now in really made me feel bad, but as people say... We got to move on in life...
Waiting for the day when our new house will be completely build and we will enter in it with a hope that it will last for a long time... long to tell it's own tale...

Shifted!

Now, everyone was building a house, I really mean renovating / improvising their houses all around us, and we were planning to do the same long ago. We wanted to build a proper house but there were a few problems within the family. But now thanks to mutual talks and corporation from a few, we will finally be building our very own house.
This sounds great, but it's gonna take long, don't really know how long but it's worth the wait. We have a lot of plans for the new house, hope all things fall in place and everything goes smooth.
Well, previously we and our uncle used to live in a bungalow type house (they used to live downstairs and we, upstairs) now we are getting separate homes for ourselves, to minimize the tensions and everything.
And for now we've shifter over to a relatives place, till our house is done...
Anyways, hoping for the best, till next time...

Twenty 10

So as we say goodbye to the year 2009 and await for the dawn of 2010, I wish to look back at a few events in this year (like everyone else) that were really meant something for me. This year was really different from any other year in my life, maybe because, in this year I have learnt a lot in life.
The starting of the year was not all that interesting, same life, home - office - home, was the same old routine that I followed. In a way the first half of the year was where I was living the same old life that I used to, but maybe the second half of the year, gave me something to cherish - I was going places, doing and learning things I wanted to. And yes, nothing did come as easy as well. But probably this year, specially the second half was something to cherish for me. Well, things wern't the same, later on at the end, was enjoying life a bit.
Well, that's much about me, short and sweet. Nothing so special, nothing so extraordinary that happened, just ordinary stuff in this ordinary life of mine.
Now about the events that happened around the world I'd like to speak about here:
Well to start with, we'd go date wise here:
On the 20th of January, the USA saw a change, Barack Obama was inaugurated as the 44th, and first African American, President of the States. A change for sure, a lot is expected of him, can he stand up to the test, who knows only time will tell.
On the 3rd of March, Gunmen attack a bus carrying Sri Lankan cricketers in Lahore, Pakistan, killing eight people and injuring several others, the players however were thankfully safe. This also raised a lot of questions about the security in Pakistan, where the situation was completely out of hand.
On the 11th of June, there was an outbreak of the H1N1 influenza strain, or “swine flu", that caused concerns and panic all across the world.
On the 25th of June, the world in a state of shock, a shock which was really unthinkable of, pop superstar, the King of Pop, Michael Joseph Jackson was no more, and so were gone all the hopes of one of the greatest comebacks in ages.
On the 7th of July, A public memorial service is held for musician Michael Jackson. It is regarded as one of the most prominent funerals of all time. The world paid it's last respect to the King of Pop, crying in disbelief that he now was no more. A memorial held at the "Staples Center" saw his entire family on stage, including his three children, Prince Michael Jackson (12), Paris Katherine Jackson (11) and Prince Michael Jackson II - also known as Blanket (7), who were there for the first time on stage, and they sang to his tunes in memory
On the 22nd of July, The longest total Solar Eclipse of the 21st century, lasting up to 6 minutes and 38.8 seconds, occurs over parts of Asia and the Pacific Ocean.
On the 2nd Of October, The International Olympic Committee chooses Rio de Janeiro to hold the 2016 Summer Olympics.
And today it the Lunar Eclipse, cool way to end the year I say. So these were a few major events, adding to these were another events that made headlines across the world.
And who'd forget - Best Cinematography, Best Director, Best Film Editing, Best Sound Mixing, Best Picture, Best Music, Best Writing - Adapted Screenplay, Best Musical Score - all at one memorable time, as Brit director Danny Boyle's Mumbai-based 'Slumdog Millionaire' swept almost every popular movie award show including the Oscars. And making India more proud was A.R. Rehman, the man who won two Oscars - and so the world went Jai Ho...all the way.
Roger Federer winning the French Open and the Wimbledon to become the Number 1 player in Tennis again. The Pakistan Cricket team won the 2009 ICC World Twenty20, after India's sad fallout. The Indian Cricket Team becoming Number 1 Test Team for the first time in History of Cricket, and plus doing very well in ODIs as well.
Well, the Indian Cricket Team is doing fine, but what about the Country, yes we need to change as Indians. Can we dare to change, in the face of booming economy, there is light shining, totally new different things to be conquered. Just hoping India blooms in Twenty 10, not only from the outside but also from the inside.
Well, so in the end I'd like to wish everybody a very Prosperous New Year, may the New Year be wonderful to you all.

Mirror, Mirror On The Wall

Each time I look into the mirror I see a new face of mine, each time trying to say something different each and every time. But I always fail to realised what it really wants to say to me, I just can't read those eyes.
It is very important for us all to know and understand ourselves, sometimes we do, but most of the times we fail to understand the real us. We tend to be someone or something else, beyond our own recognition.
So can we just look into the mirror see it for real, look deep inside those eyes and find out what they really want to say to us, maybe we will find many answers hidden within ourselves. Some answers that were so hard to find once but just by spending time within ourselves, going deep in spiritually, maybe we will find the answers to our own lives.
Just look inside your heart, and inside those eyes, you will know exactly what is going on in that mind of yours.